1 00:00:04,738 --> 00:00:08,071 narrator) black men. very much like myself. 2 00:00:08,141 --> 00:00:09,836 some not. 3 00:00:09,909 --> 00:00:13,003 black men whose voices are muted, 4 00:00:13,079 --> 00:00:14,842 swept under the carpet, 5 00:00:14,914 --> 00:00:16,939 silenced by secrecy. 6 00:00:17,017 --> 00:00:18,609 the dl man blurs the lines 7 00:00:18,685 --> 00:00:21,279 between an otherwise supposed clear distinction 8 00:00:21,354 --> 00:00:23,879 between gay and straight, 9 00:00:23,957 --> 00:00:25,720 normal and abnormal, 10 00:00:25,792 --> 00:00:28,556 moral and immoral... 11 00:00:28,628 --> 00:00:32,086 like a child joining two bloodlines. 12 00:00:32,165 --> 00:00:36,101 one dirty and one clean. 13 00:00:36,169 --> 00:00:37,466 black men caught somewhere 14 00:00:37,537 --> 00:00:42,133 in between a definition and a designation. 15 00:00:42,208 --> 00:00:44,768 living in a gray area. 16 00:00:44,844 --> 00:00:49,304 living on the down low. 17 00:00:55,155 --> 00:00:57,316 - .. to sing my life - .. sing my life, sing my life .. 18 00:00:57,390 --> 00:00:59,950 .. sing my life, sing my life .. 19 00:01:07,434 --> 00:01:09,061 narrator) stereotype: 20 00:01:09,135 --> 00:01:10,363 a formulaic 21 00:01:10,437 --> 00:01:12,337 and oversimplified conception, 22 00:01:12,405 --> 00:01:14,703 opinion, or image. 23 00:01:14,774 --> 00:01:16,264 one that is regarded 24 00:01:16,342 --> 00:01:18,173 as embodying, or conforming 25 00:01:18,244 --> 00:01:21,941 to a set image or type. 26 00:01:22,015 --> 00:01:23,448 that of the black man: 27 00:01:23,516 --> 00:01:26,246 powerful, angry, criminal. 28 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:27,684 sexual predator. 29 00:01:27,754 --> 00:01:32,782 juxtapose to that of the gay man. 30 00:01:32,859 --> 00:01:36,454 distrustful, obscene, 31 00:01:36,529 --> 00:01:40,124 sexually promiscuous. 32 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,465 now...into the down low. 33 00:01:43,536 --> 00:01:44,935 both black and gay. 34 00:01:45,004 --> 00:01:47,905 both misunderstood and feared. 35 00:01:50,643 --> 00:01:52,167 well, howīd he get my phone number, then? 36 00:01:52,245 --> 00:01:53,507 but how much is fact? 37 00:01:53,580 --> 00:01:55,844 go home, boo. and how much is fiction? 38 00:01:55,915 --> 00:01:57,542 take your little garbage bag 39 00:01:57,617 --> 00:01:58,982 and go back home to your momma house, 40 00:01:59,052 --> 00:02:00,417 because youīre not coming back up in here. 41 00:02:00,487 --> 00:02:03,217 l told you to go back to your momma house with your little bit of shit. 42 00:02:03,289 --> 00:02:04,916 why are you so fucking angry? 43 00:02:04,991 --> 00:02:06,253 y ou got all these bitches calling my house. 44 00:02:06,326 --> 00:02:07,725 man, l ainīt got no bitches-- 45 00:02:07,794 --> 00:02:09,056 all hours of the night. 46 00:02:09,129 --> 00:02:10,096 why you trippinī? 47 00:02:10,163 --> 00:02:11,323 l told you to leave! 48 00:02:11,397 --> 00:02:13,592 hear me out, keisha. hear me out. 49 00:02:13,666 --> 00:02:15,361 what the fuck l need to hear? 50 00:02:15,435 --> 00:02:17,733 l heard it all. līm tired of it. 51 00:02:17,804 --> 00:02:20,364 l aintī done nothing. l didnīt do shit. 52 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,702 why you tripping? 53 00:02:21,774 --> 00:02:22,741 whatever. 54 00:02:23,776 --> 00:02:25,004 whatever. 55 00:02:31,951 --> 00:02:34,044 meet boo. 56 00:02:36,089 --> 00:02:37,021 keisha! 57 00:02:37,090 --> 00:02:38,216 fuck you, boo. 58 00:02:38,291 --> 00:02:41,954 keisha, come on, man, open the door! 59 00:02:42,028 --> 00:02:44,826 keisha, l love you, girl. 60 00:02:44,898 --> 00:02:46,593 ltīs me and you, girl. 61 00:02:52,438 --> 00:02:54,167 l tore that shit up, right? 62 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,868 laughing) 63 00:02:56,943 --> 00:02:59,503 y ou know we gotta keep this shit on the low, okay? 64 00:02:59,579 --> 00:03:00,773 okay. 65 00:03:04,317 --> 00:03:08,253 l tore that shit up, right? 66 00:03:08,321 --> 00:03:10,812 y ou ought to keep this on the low, though, aight? 67 00:03:32,278 --> 00:03:35,509 y o, keisha was by here looking for you. 68 00:03:35,582 --> 00:03:36,742 y ou got kicked out again? 69 00:03:36,816 --> 00:03:37,805 what she say? 70 00:03:37,884 --> 00:03:39,545 she asked where you was at. 71 00:03:39,619 --> 00:03:40,711 what you tell her? 72 00:03:40,787 --> 00:03:44,848 l donīt know where the fuck you be at. 73 00:03:44,924 --> 00:03:45,856 what up, d? 74 00:03:45,925 --> 00:03:47,984 what up, boo? 75 00:03:48,061 --> 00:03:48,993 give me a square. 76 00:03:49,062 --> 00:03:51,223 man, get your own squares. 77 00:03:51,297 --> 00:03:52,821 lf you donīt give me a square, 78 00:03:52,899 --> 00:03:54,491 līm gonna fuck your little ass up. 79 00:04:01,474 --> 00:04:03,408 bitch ass. 80 00:04:03,476 --> 00:04:05,774 look at that faggot jesse. 81 00:04:05,845 --> 00:04:07,039 jesse) hey. 82 00:04:19,692 --> 00:04:21,125 hey, little tony. 83 00:04:21,194 --> 00:04:23,822 hey, boo. 84 00:04:23,896 --> 00:04:27,195 jesse) y ou got a square? 85 00:04:27,267 --> 00:04:28,529 no. 86 00:04:28,601 --> 00:04:31,069 shit. l need a square. 87 00:04:31,137 --> 00:04:33,332 just got to suck on something, donīt you? 88 00:04:35,475 --> 00:04:38,706 anyways...youīre looking good, boo. 89 00:04:38,778 --> 00:04:41,303 l ainīt seen you around here in a while. where you been? 90 00:04:41,381 --> 00:04:43,372 why you all up in this manīs business? 91 00:04:43,449 --> 00:04:45,349 ainīt nobody talking to you, deron. 92 00:04:45,418 --> 00:04:47,215 get on my nerves. 93 00:04:47,287 --> 00:04:48,879 hey man, take your faggot ass home. 94 00:04:48,955 --> 00:04:50,115 donīt you got some dicks to suck? 95 00:04:52,258 --> 00:04:53,122 fuck yīall. 96 00:04:53,192 --> 00:04:55,057 wish you could. 97 00:04:55,128 --> 00:04:57,528 y ou wish you could have this tight ass, 98 00:04:57,597 --> 00:04:58,825 but you canīt touch this. 99 00:04:58,898 --> 00:05:00,798 man, get your alds-infected ass away from here. 100 00:05:00,867 --> 00:05:03,665 l know you and kyle ainīt talking about nobody 101 00:05:03,736 --> 00:05:05,135 but yīall dirty dicks. 102 00:05:05,204 --> 00:05:06,967 y eah, thatīs right, l heard. 103 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,476 thatīs so sad. 104 00:05:11,778 --> 00:05:13,541 canīt stand fags. 105 00:05:13,613 --> 00:05:16,309 two rusty-legged ass niggas in the bed together? 106 00:05:16,382 --> 00:05:19,249 y eah, thatīs why alds and shit is everywhere. 107 00:05:19,319 --> 00:05:21,913 pager beeping) 108 00:05:23,122 --> 00:05:24,555 damn. 109 00:05:24,624 --> 00:05:26,251 who dat? 110 00:05:26,326 --> 00:05:27,691 lisa. 111 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,058 - gotta take her ass to the clinic. - again? 112 00:05:30,129 --> 00:05:32,359 l will never use protection, do yīall? 113 00:05:32,432 --> 00:05:35,697 man, sheīs supposed to be on the motherfucking pill, man. 114 00:05:35,768 --> 00:05:38,828 man, you know these bitches be trying to trip a nigga up. 115 00:05:38,905 --> 00:05:40,429 fuck that. 116 00:05:40,506 --> 00:05:41,473 shit ainīt mine anyway. 117 00:05:41,541 --> 00:05:44,874 ainīt never yours, is it? 118 00:05:44,944 --> 00:05:47,640 now come on, carl, letīs go, līm out. 119 00:05:47,714 --> 00:05:49,739 all right. 120 00:05:53,786 --> 00:05:56,254 boo, tell the truth. 121 00:05:56,322 --> 00:05:59,018 y ou ever sucked a dick when you was locked up? 122 00:06:05,765 --> 00:06:08,666 homosexuals cannot produce children. 123 00:06:08,735 --> 00:06:10,134 theyīre not a family, 124 00:06:10,203 --> 00:06:13,366 and so weīre about as blunt as they are. 125 00:06:13,439 --> 00:06:16,840 and to demonstrate, l will show you. 126 00:06:16,909 --> 00:06:20,208 two male ends, and thereīs nothing going on there. 127 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:21,371 lt doesnīt work. 128 00:06:21,447 --> 00:06:25,042 when you have a female and a male, then it works. 129 00:06:25,118 --> 00:06:25,685 boo) hey, mama. 130 00:06:25,685 --> 00:06:27,084 boo) hey, mama. 131 00:06:27,153 --> 00:06:29,383 hey, baby. 132 00:06:29,455 --> 00:06:30,888 man on tv) and unfortunately, 133 00:06:30,957 --> 00:06:34,324 if you want to have a family-- 134 00:06:34,394 --> 00:06:38,023 now donīt you be making no dishes after l done washed them. 135 00:06:38,097 --> 00:06:39,428 līll wash them up. 136 00:06:40,700 --> 00:06:42,793 do you see all these gay people on tv? 137 00:06:42,869 --> 00:06:47,306 he was a little bit scared of the cartoon characters. 138 00:06:47,373 --> 00:06:49,603 man on the news trying to get married. 139 00:06:49,675 --> 00:06:51,506 lord, thatīs a doggone shame. 140 00:06:51,577 --> 00:06:54,808 the world has gotten so corrupt. 141 00:06:54,881 --> 00:06:56,678 but when jesus come back, 142 00:06:56,749 --> 00:06:59,309 they all gonna have to give an accounting. 143 00:06:59,385 --> 00:07:01,182 mama, you ainīt got nothing to eat in here? 144 00:07:01,254 --> 00:07:05,520 did you buy something to eat? 145 00:07:05,591 --> 00:07:07,684 ah, thereīs a little collard greens in there. 146 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,455 some leftover chicken. 147 00:07:09,529 --> 00:07:11,759 l donīt want soul food. 148 00:07:11,831 --> 00:07:12,957 l could eat some cereal. 149 00:07:19,405 --> 00:07:20,599 why you ainīt over at keishaīs? 150 00:07:20,673 --> 00:07:23,233 she done put you out again. 151 00:07:23,309 --> 00:07:25,004 the gas donīt work? 152 00:07:25,077 --> 00:07:27,773 did you pay the gas bill? 153 00:07:27,847 --> 00:07:28,711 damn. 154 00:07:28,781 --> 00:07:32,774 hey, you, watch your mouth. 155 00:07:34,454 --> 00:07:37,981 she done put you out again, huh? 156 00:07:38,057 --> 00:07:40,048 boo, when you gonna settle down? 157 00:07:40,126 --> 00:07:42,959 y ou need to find you a nice girl and just settle down, 158 00:07:43,029 --> 00:07:46,157 because you getting too old for all this running around and stuff. 159 00:07:46,232 --> 00:07:49,395 all these diseases out here. 160 00:07:49,469 --> 00:07:50,731 all right? 161 00:07:50,803 --> 00:07:53,067 y ou young people, yīall ainīt scared of nothing, 162 00:07:53,139 --> 00:07:54,333 but you better be praying. 163 00:07:54,407 --> 00:07:56,238 ma, keisha gonna let me back in. 164 00:07:56,309 --> 00:07:58,072 y ou know, she just be tripping. 165 00:07:58,144 --> 00:07:59,611 hmm. 166 00:07:59,679 --> 00:08:02,443 y ou know, you just hard-headed. 167 00:08:02,515 --> 00:08:04,745 y ou gonna do what you want to do, 168 00:08:04,817 --> 00:08:06,375 īcause you grown, huh? 169 00:08:06,452 --> 00:08:10,286 ah, look at there, look at that. 170 00:08:10,356 --> 00:08:13,792 y es, we have two sons, caleb and alfred. 171 00:08:13,860 --> 00:08:16,351 caleb is 8 years old, alfred is 6. 172 00:08:16,429 --> 00:08:19,023 mama) lord, have mercy on his soul. 173 00:08:19,098 --> 00:08:23,501 now, a man ainīt supposed to be laying with no other man. 174 00:08:23,569 --> 00:08:27,232 lord, l tell you, it ainīt right, all this gay stuff. 175 00:08:27,306 --> 00:08:31,436 why donīt they just keep it to themselves? 176 00:08:34,914 --> 00:08:37,678 l ainīt gay. 177 00:08:37,750 --> 00:08:40,048 l mean, ainīt nobody fucking me. 178 00:08:40,119 --> 00:08:43,680 ainīt no man going in my ass. 179 00:08:43,756 --> 00:08:45,883 līll let you suck my dick. 180 00:08:45,958 --> 00:08:50,554 līll fuck you, but you ainīt fucking me, 181 00:08:50,630 --> 00:08:52,723 ltīs like being with a chick. 182 00:08:52,798 --> 00:08:54,993 a bitch can suck my dick. 183 00:08:55,067 --> 00:08:56,932 and līll fuck her. 184 00:08:57,003 --> 00:08:59,335 but she canīt bang me. 185 00:08:59,405 --> 00:09:01,771 thatīs the way that shit was in the pen. 186 00:09:01,841 --> 00:09:05,572 l ainīt buying no shit like that. 187 00:09:06,946 --> 00:09:09,847 y ou just let him get my nut off. 188 00:09:09,916 --> 00:09:12,384 right. 189 00:09:12,451 --> 00:09:15,943 man, a man ainīt meant to be with just one woman. 190 00:09:16,022 --> 00:09:17,853 back in the days in africa and shit, 191 00:09:17,924 --> 00:09:20,324 a man got as much pussy as he wanted to, 192 00:09:20,393 --> 00:09:22,054 and werenīt nobody tripping. 193 00:09:22,128 --> 00:09:23,390 when we laid the dick, 194 00:09:23,462 --> 00:09:26,226 they had shit to say but īīy es, sir.īī 195 00:09:26,299 --> 00:09:29,325 nowadays, bitches be complaining 196 00:09:29,402 --> 00:09:31,393 about a manīs natural desires. 197 00:09:31,470 --> 00:09:33,665 falling in love and shit. 198 00:09:33,739 --> 00:09:36,765 when they know all they want me to do is hit it. 199 00:09:36,842 --> 00:09:38,309 getting jealous. 200 00:09:38,377 --> 00:09:40,402 l mean, fuck, just because līm with you 201 00:09:40,479 --> 00:09:42,777 donīt mean there ainīt enough of me to go around. 202 00:09:42,848 --> 00:09:44,645 līm still a man, you know? 203 00:09:44,717 --> 00:09:46,082 um, l gotta go to work 204 00:09:46,152 --> 00:09:47,380 pretty early in the morning, 205 00:09:47,453 --> 00:09:50,081 and itīs getting kind of late, so... 206 00:09:51,223 --> 00:09:52,713 keisha! 207 00:09:52,792 --> 00:09:54,089 open the door! 208 00:09:55,494 --> 00:09:57,121 open the door, keisha! 209 00:09:57,196 --> 00:09:59,596 well, donīt be making no scene in my building. 210 00:09:59,665 --> 00:10:01,189 why you got me looking stupid out here? 211 00:10:01,267 --> 00:10:02,928 what you come here for in the first place? 212 00:10:03,002 --> 00:10:03,934 come on, keisha. 213 00:10:04,003 --> 00:10:05,493 l said līm sorry, man, aight? 214 00:10:05,571 --> 00:10:07,732 now, why we gotta be fighting like this, man? 215 00:10:07,807 --> 00:10:09,331 this donīt make no damn sense. 216 00:10:09,408 --> 00:10:11,433 y ou fucking around on me donīt make no sense. 217 00:10:11,510 --> 00:10:13,535 l told you, that didnīt mean nothing to me. 218 00:10:13,613 --> 00:10:16,480 now, whatīs most important to me? 219 00:10:32,498 --> 00:10:34,489 how l know you ainīt just talking again? 220 00:10:36,202 --> 00:10:38,864 l seen the error in my ways. 221 00:10:38,938 --> 00:10:40,496 plus, l brought my stuff here. 222 00:10:40,573 --> 00:10:41,699 līm moving in. 223 00:10:41,774 --> 00:10:44,174 for real this time. 224 00:10:44,243 --> 00:10:45,676 ltīs me and you. 225 00:10:50,116 --> 00:10:51,981 and l know you miss this dick. 226 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:55,885 donīt be frowning. 227 00:10:55,955 --> 00:10:59,755 ainīt nobody gonna pull them lips back like me. 228 00:10:59,825 --> 00:11:02,555 now l know youīre horny. 229 00:11:02,628 --> 00:11:05,358 no one treat that pussy like me, huh? 230 00:11:37,396 --> 00:11:39,296 wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait! 231 00:11:39,365 --> 00:11:41,663 what? 232 00:11:41,734 --> 00:11:43,429 y ou got a condom? 233 00:11:43,502 --> 00:11:44,992 y ouīre on the pill, ainīt you? 234 00:11:45,071 --> 00:11:48,006 y eah, but... 235 00:11:48,074 --> 00:11:51,100 goddamn, keisha, you got me all hard and shit. 236 00:11:51,177 --> 00:11:54,112 why you gotta be bringing up the past? l ainīt got shit. 237 00:12:18,738 --> 00:12:20,228 keisha. 238 00:12:21,874 --> 00:12:23,102 keisha. 239 00:12:23,175 --> 00:12:24,233 hmm. 240 00:12:24,310 --> 00:12:26,175 get up, l gotta go. 241 00:12:26,245 --> 00:12:29,544 what time is it? where you going? 242 00:12:29,615 --> 00:12:30,775 going to get some squares. 243 00:12:30,850 --> 00:12:32,909 l gotta go to the store real quick. 244 00:12:32,985 --> 00:12:34,919 okay. 245 00:12:47,166 --> 00:12:48,224 hey. 246 00:12:51,537 --> 00:12:53,596 y ou got a couple dollars? 247 00:12:57,910 --> 00:12:59,571 sigh) 248 00:13:03,649 --> 00:13:06,618 boo) y ou see, things be real stupid and shit. 249 00:13:06,685 --> 00:13:09,449 man, they donīt know what the hell they want. 250 00:13:09,522 --> 00:13:12,821 any real man would tell them what they want. 251 00:13:12,892 --> 00:13:17,920 y ou see, a chick need a man to tell them what they need. 252 00:13:17,997 --> 00:13:22,263 they may get mad at you and all lonely and shit, and upset with you. 253 00:13:22,334 --> 00:13:27,397 man, truth is, just wait that shit out... 254 00:13:27,473 --> 00:13:30,067 because a little dick will suffice, 255 00:13:30,142 --> 00:13:35,307 and their asses will be content. 256 00:13:35,381 --> 00:13:37,246 y ou play that shit right, 257 00:13:37,316 --> 00:13:40,717 shit, you can get them to do just about anything. 258 00:13:40,786 --> 00:13:46,122 hold up, hold up, līm about to come. 259 00:13:52,998 --> 00:13:56,764 y ou liked that shit, didnīt you? 260 00:13:56,836 --> 00:13:58,804 lt was all right. 261 00:14:09,381 --> 00:14:11,474 move! 262 00:14:26,465 --> 00:14:27,898 where you go last night? 263 00:14:27,967 --> 00:14:29,059 what? 264 00:14:29,134 --> 00:14:31,534 y ou heard me. where you go last night? 265 00:14:31,604 --> 00:14:34,937 what you mean where l go out? l went to get some cigarettes. 266 00:14:35,007 --> 00:14:36,941 well, where they at, then? 267 00:14:37,009 --> 00:14:38,476 man, donīt be trying to dis me. 268 00:14:38,544 --> 00:14:41,104 - where, boo? - they must be in my pants pocket. 269 00:14:41,180 --> 00:14:42,306 oh, which pants pocket? 270 00:14:42,381 --> 00:14:44,110 l went through the ones you wore last night, 271 00:14:44,183 --> 00:14:45,309 and l ainīt found no cigarettes. 272 00:14:45,384 --> 00:14:48,945 man, keisha, l most have smoked them all. 273 00:14:50,723 --> 00:14:51,781 get out! 274 00:14:51,857 --> 00:14:52,789 see, keisha, damn! 275 00:14:52,858 --> 00:14:54,257 there you go again, tripping, man! 276 00:14:54,326 --> 00:14:55,452 get out! 277 00:14:55,527 --> 00:14:57,085 told you there ainīt no other woman! 278 00:15:09,909 --> 00:15:11,274 give me a square. 279 00:15:15,381 --> 00:15:17,110 got kicked out again. 280 00:15:20,085 --> 00:15:21,882 she gonna let me back in. 281 00:15:27,326 --> 00:15:29,089 she gonna let me back in. 282 00:15:29,161 --> 00:15:31,288 phone ringing) 283 00:15:31,363 --> 00:15:33,092 answering machine) hey, this is keisha, 284 00:15:33,165 --> 00:15:35,224 līm not home, līm probably out getting my party on, 285 00:15:35,301 --> 00:15:39,237 so leave me a message, and līll call you back if l feel like it. 286 00:15:39,305 --> 00:15:42,206 keisha, pick up the phone. 287 00:15:42,274 --> 00:15:43,502 pick up the phone, keisha! 288 00:15:43,575 --> 00:15:44,599 phone ringing) 289 00:15:44,677 --> 00:15:46,474 answering machine) what up? this is d. 290 00:15:46,545 --> 00:15:49,844 hit me back. peace. 291 00:15:49,915 --> 00:15:50,847 whatīs up, man? ltīs boo. 292 00:15:50,916 --> 00:15:52,611 ltīs been a minute. where you been? 293 00:15:52,685 --> 00:15:54,482 hit me back, aight? 294 00:15:58,290 --> 00:16:00,554 y ou take care of that business? 295 00:16:02,528 --> 00:16:05,156 no, man. fuck that bitch. 296 00:16:05,230 --> 00:16:06,925 what happened? 297 00:16:10,569 --> 00:16:13,163 she didnīt want to go through with it. 298 00:16:13,238 --> 00:16:15,798 talking about she gonna have the baby and shit. 299 00:16:15,874 --> 00:16:19,173 see, man, whatīs wrong with yīall little shorties 300 00:16:19,244 --> 00:16:22,236 is yīall donīt know how to pimp these bitches like a real player. 301 00:16:22,314 --> 00:16:23,645 man, you fuck with these hos, 302 00:16:23,716 --> 00:16:25,206 they get you all strung and shit. 303 00:16:25,284 --> 00:16:28,253 before you know it they telling you what the fuck is up. 304 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:29,787 fuck her, man. 305 00:16:29,855 --> 00:16:32,949 that shit ainīt mine anyway. 306 00:16:33,025 --> 00:16:34,617 l know whatīs up. 307 00:16:34,693 --> 00:16:37,184 she think l donīt know she been creeping with her ex 308 00:16:37,262 --> 00:16:39,230 since he been back in town. 309 00:16:39,298 --> 00:16:41,289 so you ought to go fuck him up. 310 00:16:43,435 --> 00:16:46,097 nah. ltīs cool. 311 00:16:46,171 --> 00:16:48,230 been seeing this new honey 312 00:16:48,307 --> 00:16:50,138 from over east. 313 00:16:50,209 --> 00:16:51,904 puerto rican chick. 314 00:16:51,977 --> 00:16:53,410 bad as hell. 315 00:16:53,479 --> 00:16:56,880 she be calling you papi chulo and shit like that, right? 316 00:16:56,949 --> 00:16:59,782 y eah. 317 00:16:59,852 --> 00:17:04,255 hey, uh, letīs go take care of this. 318 00:17:15,868 --> 00:17:18,769 .... distant gospel) 319 00:17:20,372 --> 00:17:22,067 choir) .. god set me free .. 320 00:17:22,141 --> 00:17:23,233 .. lord .. 321 00:17:23,308 --> 00:17:25,936 .. god set me free .. 322 00:17:43,395 --> 00:17:44,794 y o. 323 00:17:44,863 --> 00:17:46,524 whatīs up? 324 00:17:54,306 --> 00:17:55,364 nothing. 325 00:19:02,908 --> 00:19:05,376 all right, hold up, hold on. 326 00:19:05,444 --> 00:19:07,344 all right, turn over. 327 00:19:07,412 --> 00:19:08,606 what? 328 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,409 turn over. 329 00:19:10,482 --> 00:19:12,712 nah, nah. l donīt know. 330 00:19:12,784 --> 00:19:16,083 come on, man, my shit is hard as a rock, man, come on. 331 00:19:16,155 --> 00:19:17,816 turn over. 332 00:19:17,890 --> 00:19:19,448 we ainīt got no hats. 333 00:19:19,525 --> 00:19:22,255 oh, whatīs up, baby. y ou donīt trust me, huh? 334 00:19:48,620 --> 00:19:50,281 open the door! 335 00:19:50,355 --> 00:19:52,823 boo, what is your fucking problem? 336 00:19:52,891 --> 00:19:54,825 - let me in. - boo, it is 7:00 in the morning. 337 00:19:54,893 --> 00:19:57,259 why you ainīt answering my calls? 338 00:19:57,329 --> 00:19:59,889 boo, go back to your momma house and grow the fuck up. 339 00:19:59,965 --> 00:20:01,398 see, keisha, there you go again, you talk-- 340 00:20:01,466 --> 00:20:03,866 y ou goddamn right. ltīs 7:00 in the morning, 341 00:20:03,936 --> 00:20:05,460 and you banging on my goddamn door. 342 00:20:05,537 --> 00:20:06,834 man) why donīt you shut up! 343 00:20:06,905 --> 00:20:08,202 y ouīre waking everybody in the building up. 344 00:20:08,273 --> 00:20:09,900 well, let me in, then. 345 00:20:09,975 --> 00:20:11,943 līve been calling your ass for two weeks. 346 00:20:12,010 --> 00:20:13,978 l keep getting that silly-ass answering machine. 347 00:20:14,046 --> 00:20:15,013 and so what? 348 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,342 y ou got somebody in there, keisha? 349 00:20:16,415 --> 00:20:17,473 please. 350 00:20:18,784 --> 00:20:20,581 then why you wonīt you let me in? 351 00:20:20,652 --> 00:20:22,313 keisha, you got somebody in there? 352 00:20:22,387 --> 00:20:23,445 no! 353 00:20:23,522 --> 00:20:24,955 y ou got another nigga in there, keisha? 354 00:20:25,023 --> 00:20:26,081 man) who the fuck is that? 355 00:20:26,158 --> 00:20:28,251 - who the fuck is that? - nobody. 356 00:20:28,327 --> 00:20:29,294 man, stop lying. 357 00:20:29,361 --> 00:20:30,225 lt was the tv. 358 00:20:30,295 --> 00:20:32,024 bitch, you just woke the fuck up. 359 00:20:32,097 --> 00:20:34,156 how the fuck the tv supposed to be on? 360 00:20:34,233 --> 00:20:35,962 y ou better let me in this motherfucker. 361 00:20:36,034 --> 00:20:38,025 - indistinct male voice) - ssh! 362 00:20:38,103 --> 00:20:39,866 go home, boo, itīs too early for your shit. 363 00:20:41,807 --> 00:20:43,832 go home, boo, or līm calling the police! 364 00:20:43,909 --> 00:20:45,740 l donīt care! 365 00:20:45,811 --> 00:20:49,303 y ou gonna violate your parole, and they gonna lock your dumb ass back up. 366 00:20:49,381 --> 00:20:51,372 l donīt care. 367 00:20:51,450 --> 00:20:52,610 keisha! 368 00:20:55,687 --> 00:21:00,351 y o, player, the lady says she donīt want to be bothered. 369 00:21:00,425 --> 00:21:01,756 what? 370 00:21:01,827 --> 00:21:05,695 l said the lady said she donīt want to be bothered, 371 00:21:05,764 --> 00:21:09,063 so letīs just be cool and step on, player. 372 00:21:16,742 --> 00:21:18,607 okay. 373 00:21:18,677 --> 00:21:19,666 aight. 374 00:21:19,745 --> 00:21:21,235 l ainīt even gonna sweat this shit. 375 00:21:21,313 --> 00:21:22,803 aight, then. 376 00:21:25,951 --> 00:21:27,816 this niggaīs dick ainīt even as big as mine. 377 00:21:36,261 --> 00:21:39,025 l know you planning on replacing that milk, 378 00:21:39,097 --> 00:21:42,066 after putting your dirty mouth on it. 379 00:21:42,134 --> 00:21:44,227 but l guess you gotta get you a job first, donīt you? 380 00:21:44,303 --> 00:21:46,635 come on, ma, not right now. 381 00:21:46,705 --> 00:21:47,797 lf not now, when? 382 00:21:47,873 --> 00:21:50,569 boo, you have to start carrying your weight around here. 383 00:21:50,642 --> 00:21:52,303 l canīt keep taking care of you. 384 00:21:52,377 --> 00:21:53,969 līm moving out real soon. 385 00:21:54,046 --> 00:21:54,842 gettinī my own spot. 386 00:21:54,913 --> 00:21:58,076 oh really? with who, keisha? 387 00:21:58,150 --> 00:21:59,913 l ainīt trying to go there. 388 00:21:59,985 --> 00:22:02,453 ah, keisha not gonna let you back in, huh? 389 00:22:02,521 --> 00:22:06,787 l guess you really done did it this time. 390 00:22:06,858 --> 00:22:09,122 y ou just like your father. 391 00:22:09,194 --> 00:22:13,722 sleeping around with everything that sat down to pee. 392 00:22:13,799 --> 00:22:15,494 l ainīt trying to hear that. 393 00:22:17,002 --> 00:22:19,095 y our father fooled around on me so much. 394 00:22:19,171 --> 00:22:21,230 she the one fooling around on me. 395 00:22:21,306 --> 00:22:22,898 l ainīt did nothing to that girl. 396 00:22:22,974 --> 00:22:24,236 who you think youīre fooling? 397 00:22:24,309 --> 00:22:27,039 l know my sons. 398 00:22:27,112 --> 00:22:30,639 well, at least yīall ainīt walking around here trying to be gay, 399 00:22:30,716 --> 00:22:31,978 trying to be a woman, 400 00:22:32,050 --> 00:22:34,541 like miss washingtonīs son up the street. 401 00:22:34,619 --> 00:22:35,483 whatīs that boyīs name? 402 00:22:35,554 --> 00:22:37,044 jesse. y eah, jesse. 403 00:22:37,122 --> 00:22:41,786 l feel so sorry for miss washington. 404 00:22:41,860 --> 00:22:43,157 well, līm going to church. 405 00:22:43,228 --> 00:22:45,093 līm gonna pray for yīall. 406 00:22:45,163 --> 00:22:47,188 going to put your name on the altar. 407 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:29,704 tv turns on) 408 00:23:29,775 --> 00:23:31,037 knocking) 409 00:23:31,109 --> 00:23:32,576 man) excuse me, maīam. 410 00:23:32,644 --> 00:23:35,306 l got a call that you were having cable problems? 411 00:23:35,380 --> 00:23:36,745 līm here to check your connections. 412 00:23:36,815 --> 00:23:39,045 woman) oh yeah, thank you for coming. 413 00:23:39,117 --> 00:23:41,779 līve been having some trouble in bed-- 414 00:23:41,853 --> 00:23:43,377 oh, l mean in the bedroom. 415 00:23:43,455 --> 00:23:45,685 man) why donīt l take a look for myself? 416 00:23:45,757 --> 00:23:47,122 banging on door) 417 00:23:47,192 --> 00:23:48,284 who is it? 418 00:23:48,360 --> 00:23:50,260 who the fuck you think it is? 419 00:23:51,797 --> 00:23:54,425 - banging on door) - open the door! 420 00:24:01,940 --> 00:24:02,964 damn, boo. 421 00:24:03,041 --> 00:24:05,839 y ou ainīt gonna believe this shit. 422 00:24:05,911 --> 00:24:06,843 what up? 423 00:24:06,912 --> 00:24:10,871 deron. 424 00:24:10,949 --> 00:24:12,177 what about him? 425 00:24:12,250 --> 00:24:14,548 he got fucked up. 426 00:24:14,619 --> 00:24:16,018 he got jumped? 427 00:24:16,087 --> 00:24:20,148 nah, they say that fool got alds, 428 00:24:20,225 --> 00:24:26,095 and his girl lisa, she got it, too. 429 00:24:26,164 --> 00:24:29,292 for real? 430 00:24:29,367 --> 00:24:31,733 ah, man, how do you know that shit true, man? 431 00:24:31,803 --> 00:24:33,134 fools be making up stories everyday. 432 00:24:33,205 --> 00:24:35,673 l was wondering why he ainīt been around lately. 433 00:24:35,740 --> 00:24:39,176 kyle found out his ass has been in the hospital with pneumonia. 434 00:24:39,244 --> 00:24:43,681 he didnīt want anybody to know and shit. 435 00:24:43,748 --> 00:24:47,013 what the fuck pneumonia got to do with it? 436 00:24:47,085 --> 00:24:50,714 any motherfucker can catch a cold. 437 00:24:50,789 --> 00:24:54,987 man, if you donīt get your ass out of my room, man-- 438 00:24:55,060 --> 00:24:57,722 on popīs grave, boo, on the real. 439 00:24:57,796 --> 00:24:59,161 his girl found that shit out 440 00:24:59,231 --> 00:25:01,825 when he took her to the clinic that day. 441 00:25:01,900 --> 00:25:03,595 l think she gave it to him 442 00:25:03,668 --> 00:25:04,965 because she be out there wildinī 443 00:25:05,036 --> 00:25:07,004 with a whole bunch of dudes. 444 00:25:07,072 --> 00:25:09,734 even kyle hit that shit. 445 00:25:16,214 --> 00:25:17,875 thatīs fucked up, ainīt it? 446 00:25:37,903 --> 00:25:42,169 phone ringing) 447 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:46,506 male operator) welcome to southwest bell. what listing? 448 00:25:46,578 --> 00:25:49,570 hello? 449 00:25:49,648 --> 00:25:51,275 y eah, um... 450 00:25:51,349 --> 00:25:53,214 what listing, please? 451 00:25:53,285 --> 00:25:54,582 can l have the number for-- 452 00:25:54,653 --> 00:25:57,850 operator) līm sorry, sir, what was that? 453 00:25:57,923 --> 00:25:59,481 sir? 454 00:25:59,558 --> 00:26:01,822 hello? 455 00:26:01,893 --> 00:26:03,155 sir. 456 00:26:14,439 --> 00:26:17,499 phone ringing) 457 00:26:21,746 --> 00:26:23,236 answering machine) hey, this is keisha. 458 00:26:23,315 --> 00:26:25,442 līm not home, līm probably out getting my party on, 459 00:26:25,517 --> 00:26:30,614 so leave me a message, and līll call you back if l feel like it. 460 00:26:30,689 --> 00:26:31,917 keisha, this is boo. 461 00:26:34,526 --> 00:26:36,756 keisha, pick up the phone. 462 00:26:36,828 --> 00:26:40,628 keisha, call me back, aight, itīs important. 463 00:27:03,488 --> 00:27:04,546 y ou like it? 464 00:27:04,623 --> 00:27:06,090 y es. 465 00:27:26,177 --> 00:27:27,610 y ouīre on it, baby. 466 00:27:29,014 --> 00:27:30,481 oh, yeah! 467 00:27:39,124 --> 00:27:40,523 aw, fuck. 468 00:27:48,299 --> 00:27:50,631 oh! like heaven! 469 00:27:50,702 --> 00:27:53,000 līm gonna co-- 470 00:28:05,917 --> 00:28:08,477 oh, no, līm coming. 471 00:28:08,553 --> 00:28:11,545 l ainīt no fag! 472 00:28:11,623 --> 00:28:16,322 līm a man like any other man. 473 00:28:16,394 --> 00:28:20,330 l just like to fuck, thatīs all. 474 00:28:20,398 --> 00:28:26,303 y eah, l know itīs wrong, creeping and shit. 475 00:28:26,371 --> 00:28:28,032 but we all creep. 476 00:28:28,106 --> 00:28:29,733 women, too. 477 00:28:33,445 --> 00:28:38,405 who l like to fuck ainīt nobody business. 478 00:28:38,483 --> 00:28:41,008 this ainīt nothing new. 479 00:28:41,086 --> 00:28:43,418 naw. 480 00:28:46,624 --> 00:28:49,218 līm just keeping it real. 481 00:29:02,974 --> 00:29:05,602 hey, boo, you got a square? 482 00:29:38,610 --> 00:29:41,238 man, l donīt know how you do it, dude. 483 00:29:50,054 --> 00:29:51,817 honey, it ainīt easy being me. 484 00:29:56,728 --> 00:29:59,128 but itīs better than being somebody else. 485 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,033 just got to do my thing, you know? 486 00:30:05,103 --> 00:30:07,594 muffled car stereo) 487 00:30:12,811 --> 00:30:14,745 .. damn, l really want a taste .. 488 00:30:14,813 --> 00:30:16,542 .. īcause a really mm-mmm good .. 489 00:30:16,614 --> 00:30:17,546 girl) come here! 490 00:30:17,615 --> 00:30:18,741 .. letīs get a little stud .. 491 00:30:18,817 --> 00:30:21,081 .. better think twice with the wood .. 492 00:30:21,152 --> 00:30:22,312 .. letīs all get grown .. 493 00:30:22,387 --> 00:30:24,116 .. hit the bar, letīs sip patron .. 494 00:30:24,189 --> 00:30:26,623 .. l ainīt ever gonna let you take me home .. 495 00:30:26,691 --> 00:30:29,592 .. īcause līm gonna be here ītill 6:00 in the morning .. 496 00:30:43,942 --> 00:30:44,931 what up, nikka? 497 00:30:45,009 --> 00:30:47,876 whatīs up, boo? where you been? 498 00:30:47,946 --> 00:30:49,345 chillinī. 499 00:30:49,414 --> 00:30:51,143 y eah? 500 00:30:51,216 --> 00:30:52,274 whereīs keisha? 501 00:30:52,350 --> 00:30:54,580 we ainīt together no more. 502 00:30:54,652 --> 00:30:59,419 well , you know, she didnīt deserve no real man like you anyway. 503 00:30:59,490 --> 00:31:00,718 and where your man at? 504 00:31:00,792 --> 00:31:02,817 probably somewhere fucking around. 505 00:31:02,894 --> 00:31:05,192 whatever. 506 00:31:05,263 --> 00:31:07,231 so what you trying to get into? 507 00:31:07,298 --> 00:31:09,061 just trying to see whatīs up with you. 508 00:31:11,236 --> 00:31:12,794 y ou want a ride? 509 00:31:38,296 --> 00:31:40,423 narrator) the one truth about stereotype is, 510 00:31:40,498 --> 00:31:45,697 like beauty, it lies in the eye of the beholder. 511 00:31:49,107 --> 00:31:52,372 y et the down low man carries the brunt of blame 512 00:31:52,443 --> 00:31:56,436 because his stereotype provides an easy answer 513 00:31:56,514 --> 00:32:00,143 to a fault that lies with us all. 514 00:32:15,667 --> 00:32:18,727 .. who better, more qualified .. 515 00:32:18,803 --> 00:32:21,966 .. to sing my lifeīs chronicles than me? .. 516 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,532 .. who better, more qualified .. 517 00:32:25,610 --> 00:32:29,068 .. to sing my lifeīs chronicles than me? .. 518 00:32:29,147 --> 00:32:32,446 .. who better, more qualified .. 519 00:32:32,517 --> 00:32:35,816 .. to sing my lifeīs chronicles than me? .. 520 00:32:35,887 --> 00:32:38,913 .. who better, more qualified .. 521 00:32:38,990 --> 00:32:41,857 .. to sing my lifeīs chronicles than me? .. 522 00:32:41,926 --> 00:32:43,985 .. who better, more qualified .. 523 00:32:44,062 --> 00:32:47,225 closed-captioned by j.r. media services, lnc. burbank, ca